Spouse of medicated- a little advice

My spouse is the medicated one and it I could offer some advice to him ( it is hard to do these days) I would tell him to have a very set schedule very routine like. Eat enough, drink fluids, have sleep routine, good for walks in the sun, take vitamin D, make a list of what brings you joy and do them on the daily basis( even if you dont feel like it), also write down what you enjoy doing with your partner and try your best to do it, once in a while. Ask for hugs, write a journal, understand that the medications twist reality. Question your emotions and behavior. Apologize for bad behavior and say it was not your intention to cause pain or hurt(this can really help your partner heal and not resent you) Wean. Slowly.