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Advice from the inside of hell

“It will be harder for him to wake up without you in his life. It will be hard on you but worth doing whatever you can stand”

“Remember his reality is hugely warped”

“The real him is trapped in there”

“say what you need to say to get him to taper”

Once he’s woken up enough he’ll see it all!!

When this happens just remember that isn’t the real him

We all know it’s the poison. And I am thankful for this chat and the other groups/chats as otherwise I’d think it was me.
But no. It is the poisons!!”

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